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MARYAM,
the mother of Jesus: the best of women
You
may be surprised to learn that Muslims love and
honour Mary, the mother of Jesus (peace be upon them both). In fact,
when naming the best woman to ever live, the Prophet Muhammad (peace
be upon him) named Mary, known as Maryam in Arabic, as the best
woman to ever live!
In
the Quran, there is without a doubt no woman that is given more
attention than Maryam. She is mentioned 34 times in the Quran and
there is an entire chapter dedicated to her and her history, Chapter
19 entitled Maryam. It can be seen that Maryam is highly honoured
in Islam by that fact that of the 114 chapters in the Quran, Maryam
is among the eight few who have a chapter named after them. Maryam
is also the only woman to be specifically named in the Quran. As
a matter of fact, Maryam is mentioned more times in the Quran than
in the entire New Testament, and there is more information about
her life contained in the Quran than in the New Testament.
Maryam
is so highly respected in Islam that she has been described as possessing
the perfection of human spiritual attainment, and is revered by
Muslims for her spirituality and piety. Allah says of Maryam in
the Quran: “Right graciously did her Lord accept her, He made
her grow in purity and in beauty” (Quran 3: 37). Because of
her purity and complete devotion to God, Maryam is a role model
to Muslim women all around the world, who look to her as the example
of what an ideal Muslim woman should aspire to be.
However,
not only is Maryam a role model to women, but she is also an example
to men. Maryam is described as a siddiqa, meaning the Most Truthful,
which is the category placed immediately after the rank of the prophets.
Both women and men look to Maryam for her sense of spirituality,
as she is given the honour of being described in the Quran as one
of the qanitin (Quran 66:12), a masculine plural form that indicates
one obedient to God. This emphasises the fact that Maryam’s
virtue is not confined by gender, and she is an example for all
who believe, male and female. Maryam’s spirituality is one
of her outstanding characteristics that all Muslims strive to emulate.
Another
fact worth noting is that according to some scholars, Maryam in
Hebrew means ‘the woman worth two men’. Once again,
this emphasises that Maryam is an example to all people, whether
male or female, as Maryam was able to have both child and provision
and she needed no man for that. Maryam is certainly one of the best
examples of a successful Muslim woman, and she is still as relevant
to society today as she was in her own time.
There
is no faith or holy book that honours Maryam and holds her in such
high esteem as does Islam in the Quran. The Quran relates the pure
character and high status of Maryam from her own birth till the
miraculous conception and birth of Jesus (peace be upon him). As
an example to all humankind, Maryam was preferred over all women
to be the mother of Jesus. This is seen in the Quran when the angels
said to Maryam, “O Maryam! Verily, Allah has chosen you, purified
you, and chosen you above the women of the worlds” (Quran
3:42). So it must be understood that Maryam holds one of the most
honoured positions in the hearts of Muslims of all times and places.
Muslims aim to completely submit themselves to the will of God,
and Maryam is the prime example of this. She showed complete submission
to God even when it meant that her own family would accuse her of
being unchaste when they discovered she was pregnant (Quran 19:16-21).
This demonstrates Maryam’s complete devotion to God, and highlights
to us her intense spirituality and piety. Maryam was able to completely
submit herself to God, showing that she was a true “Muslim”,
as the word “Muslim” means one who submits. And in the
religious sense, Islam actually means peace and purity achieved
by submitting to the will of God and obeying His law. All these
factors are demonstrated in the life of Maryam, a true example of
a successful woman.
The
virtues, moral excellence and high status of Maryam are detailed
in the Quran, and she is presented as an example to all humankind.
Maryam is arguably the most outstanding character in Islamic history,
and as a woman, she is an example for women in all aspects of their
lives. Her sincerity, piety, purity and devotion to God the All
Mighty are qualities that all Muslims aspire to. Maryam is mentioned
repetitively in the Quran as the best of all women and an icon of
purity for all. Maryam is truly a successful Muslim woman and through
her actions, she sets the example of the way to attain spirituality
and sincere submission to God for all Muslims.
By
Feda Abdo
References
Esposito,
John L. (2002) What Everyone Needs to Know About Islam Oxford University
Press
http://www-unix.oit.edu/~clit387/maryislam.htm
http://www.islamonline.net
http://www.islamfortoday.com
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